▍展覽消息｜失敗的戀愛 —— 翁榛羚 個展 此次展覽以「失敗的戀愛」為題，源自於我從大學至今的感情經驗。那些曾經轟轟烈烈、渴望每分每秒都黏在一起的戀愛，彷彿都受到某種無形的魔咒牽引，幾乎在三個月左右便開始瓦解。有些因價值觀的衝突而結束，有些則因背叛而破裂。初戀時遭遇劈腿的經驗，也深深改變了我理解愛情的方式，使我逐漸將感情視為尋求安全感的出口，而非彼此平等的付出。我一直不相信所謂的一見鍾情，但回頭看，每一段戀情幾乎都是在見到對方的第一面後，便無法停止思念。這樣的情感來得迅速而強烈，也讓我一次次投入關係。然而在愛情之中，我卻從未真正學會愛自己。我總像一塊柔軟的泥土，不斷迎合對方、改變自己，希望成為對方期待的模樣。直到一段關係結束，才發現那塊泥土早已被反覆揉捏得面目全非，也失去了原本的形狀。因此，我開始思考，「失敗」究竟代表什麼？失敗，是一段戀情的結束？是分手後躲在床上痛哭？是反覆翻看曾經幸福的照片而無法自拔？還是，在一段關係中逐漸失去自己，才是真正的失敗？ —— 節錄自 翁榛羚「失敗的戀愛 」創作自述 *** The title of this exhibition, "Failed Romances", comes from my experiences with love since university. My relationships often began with great intensity. We wanted to spend every moment together, yet it was as if some invisible spell took hold. Around the three month mark, things would begin to fall apart. Some relationships ended because our values clashed. Others ended in betrayal. When my first partner was unfaithful, it changed the way I understood love. I began to seek safety in relationships instead of seeing love as something two people give equally. I have never believed in love at first sight. Looking back, though, I realize that in almost every relationship, I could not stop thinking about the other person from the moment we met. My feelings came quickly and strongly, and I gave myself to each relationship. But I never truly learned to love myself. I was like a piece of soft clay, always adjusting to the other person and reshaping myself into what I thought they wanted. Only when a relationship ended did I see how thoroughly that clay had been worked, until it no longer resembled its original shape. I began to wonder what “failure” really means. Is it the end of a relationship? Crying in bed after a breakup? Looking again and again at photographs of happier times? Or is the real failure losing yourself while you are still with someone? (Excerpt from Weng Jhen-Ling’s artist statement for "Failed Romances") // ■ 失敗的戀愛 —— 翁榛羚 個展 開幕｜2026. 10. 24 (Sat.) 展期｜2026. 10. 22 - 11. 21 時間｜12:00-18:00，日、一公休 ** 台北藝博期間，11/1-2開放，11/3-4公休 ** 地點｜異雲書屋 台北市大安區青田街12巷23號1樓 【本展覽部分展出內容涉及成人題材，建議斟酌觀賞】 本次展覽介紹｜https://www.yiyun-art.com/exhibition/2026-11 ＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿ ■ Failed Romances WENG JHEN LING solo exhibition Opening｜24 Oct. 2026 (Sat.) Phase｜22 Oct. – 21 Nov. 2026 Hours｜12:00–18:00 (Closed Sundays & Mondays.) ** Open Nov 1–2 during ART TAIPEI; closed Nov 3–4. ** Venue｜YIYUN ART 1F, No. 23, Ln. 12, Qingtian St., Da’an Dist., Taipei 【Please note that this exhibition contains some adult themes. Viewer discretion is advised.】 Learn more｜https://www.yiyun-art.com/en/exhibition/2026-11 ＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿＿ ❰ 收藏洽詢｜Inquiries ❱ 異雲書屋 YIYUN ART Tel｜02 2395 9292 Email｜[email protected] More Info｜https://linktr.ee/yiyunart